Having it all. The goal of the modern age. The benchmark every woman is supposed to strive for.

We’re told it’s possible. And desirable. The ultimate success.

But what if “having it all” isn’t enough?

There is a darker side of success that no one talks about.

Obviously, every woman’s idea of “having it all” is different. There’s no one-size-fits-all model of what “all” entails.

But let’s put that fact aside for now and focus on a deeper truth…

Success isn’t what we’ve been led to believe…

It’s not a six-figure business. A profitable product launch. Filling your group programs and courses.

Truth bomb:

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The dark side of having it all

When my clients tell me their deepest, darkest secrets, it usually revolves around one of two themes:

“I don’t love myself.”

Or “I don’t know who I am anymore.”

And it doesn’t matter how successful they are.

In fact, the MORE outward success they have, the more they usually struggle…

They fear they’ll be “found out” and exposed as a fraud.

They’re frustrated and disillusioned that their success didn’t bring them the confidence it was supposed to.

Having it all didn’t fix their problems.

You see, they were told by the “gurus” that all they needed to do was make more money, and all their problems would disappear.

Of course, it’s more subtle than that.

The message is couched in terms of “change more lives” or “stop struggling and finally build that 6-figure business…”

As if MONEY can make you love yourself.

As if SUCCESS makes all the hurt go away.

Just ask my clients: success usually MAGNIFIES it. 

You see, success without self-love isn’t success. It’s just a prettier emotional prison.

You can wear yourself out chasing that Next Big Achievement. That next zero on your bottom line. The next 1,000 names on your email list.

But what’s the ultimate goal?

WHY are you hustling so hard? WHAT do you think that Next Level will bring you – in terms of personal fulfillment?

Hear me carefully: I WANT you to be successful. I WANT you to make more money and change more lives.

But in order to DO that, the FIRST person whose life you must change is your OWN.

Trust me, I get it…

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I used to fill up every waking second of my time. Doing. Achieving. Accomplishing.

Top grades… Articles in scientific journals… Building a business…

I tried to EARN my self-worth through achievement.

Well, you can guess how THAT went…

Exactly…

After every A-grade, every professional success, I was left with me. Just me, lying on my bed at night STILL feeling crappy about myself.

So how did I break that endless cycle?

I had to HEAL the broken parts of me. Own my intrinsic, God-given worth. Learn to love myself – all of me.

Maybe you’re struggling right now with the need to DO more, BE more, EARN more…

The frustration of the endless hustle that doesn’t fill that hole in your soul…

The solution

There is hope, and there is a solution.

I’m here to help.

I help women just like you who are tired of chasing achievement for their worth.

I help you find confidence, success, and fulfillment through authenticity and self-worth.

And I help you DEAL WITH the emotional baggage that keeps you feeling Not Good Enough.

That chews away at your confidence, no matter how much success you achieve.

More importantly, I help you DO THE WORK to know yourself, love yourself, and BE yourself.

So that, no matter if you make 6 figures this month or six DOLLARS, your WORTH and your BELIEF in yourself is solid.

So nothing can shake your confidence.

And so you can get off the achievement treadmill and enjoy LASTING fulfillment by BEING YOURSELF – giving true, authentic expression to the woman you were created to be.

Your next step

Confidence Reboot strategy session

If you’re ready to invest the time, money, and energy in yourself to know your worth, be more confident, and be yourself, then I invite you to schedule a time to chat with me about how I can support you in your journey. 

We’ll dive into WHERE and WHY you’re stuck, HOW it affects your business and personal life, and WHAT are your best, next steps to gain the confidence and fulfillment you desire.

>>>Schedule a strategy session here<<<

You give your all in your business. You invest a lot in your skills, your knowledge, and your expertise. And that’s awesome! Now it’s time to invest in your SELF.

>>>Schedule your appointment today<<<

Because your business needs it.

Your SOUL hungers for it.

And YOU deserve it


Holly Doherty
Holly Doherty

Holly Doherty is an author, speaker, and self-worth coach who helps women love and trust themselves again so they can have more impact, peace, and fulfillment. And it all starts when you know your worth, radiate confidence, and embrace your most authentic, be*YOU*tiful YOU!